
A colleague of mine, Gerald Ingram, from Oregon, recently wrote what it means to be a Dog Parent/Guardian. He put it so beautifully, that I just had to share.
Seemed appropriate on National Dog Day.
"I don't like to think of a dog as no more than a couch, car or
pencil. Property is disposable, an animal life is not. ...We have a
greater responsibility to an animal in our care of responsibility
than just ownership. I can reupholster a couch, I can scrap a car or
trade it in, I can break a pencil out of frustration and no one cares
or even should care. I can shoot an old car with guns and set it on
fire, just because I am pissed or just for the fun of it.
Some do treat dogs like human children, bad spoiled brat human
children. If you take the knowledge that we posses in teaching and
caring for dogs and properly apply it to humans, we would have a lot
less trouble in our youth and hence a lot less trouble in our society
as adults. If we provided the the right nutrition, the right
reinforcement and didn't focus on punishing our children, they would
be better off. If we did not appease them with food or freedom just
to get them off our backs, but instead spent quality time and gave
positive feedback, our children would be much better off. Too many
people refer to those who spoil their dogs as treating them like
children. Spoiling is a relative term. I spoil my dogs with proper
care and emotional support. I spoil them with medical attention and
proper training. I only wish I could go back and do better for my
children as I am now doing for my dogs. I didn't do my children
wrong, but if only I had known how to make them believe in themselves
just a little bit more. If I had reinforced them in even better ways,
just how much farther might they have gone."
Well said. Thank you, Gerald.